A transgender woman is sitting in front of me on the bus at the moment, which makes me think about sex and gender again.
I am certainly impressed by people, whether they are women or men, who can say "I'd do it with whoever I feel like, there is no gender nor sex in my choice. I can fall in love with a woman, with a man, with a transgender, with a lesbian, with a bi, with a pangender, with a transvestite"... Well, you get the picture.
Which makes me think again. Do we actually have sex with anyone but fall in love with certain category? Do we say for example, "I can have sex with a woman, no problem after all it pure sex, but I can not fall in love with a woman; therefore, I am a straight woman or, possibly bi". Is this what makes us what we are?
Which brings another question. Do we fall in love with someone sexual and gender identity, behaviour, choice or do we fall in love with who the person is, the character blah blah blah? If you find out that your man is a straight crossdresser, would you stop loving him? If so, why? He is still the same man you have fallen in love? What has changed?
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