It doesn't matter which country you live in, if you're certain type of person you find happiness, stay content, you will keep your heart at peace in either land. But if you are not happy with yourself and life and everything around you, you will be the same unhappy, grumpy person no matter where you live.
It is not about the land you are in, it is about you.
This is where people go wrong. They say "I'll leave and I'll be okay". But you take everything about you with you when you're changing the land you live and you end up in the same place.
Actually, things get worse. It is harder in a new land. You have to work harder. And all of a sudden you have this new identity that you don't like. It is hard to be an immigrant or "yabancı". Your constantly prove yourself to the natives. You try hard to be where you were in your country and you never ever achieve that. They don't want you. You're not one of them no matter how integrated you are. They spot you just like that.
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